Hi!

  • I'm Bennie.

  • My birthday is august 19, i am 20yrs old.

  • They/them pronouns please. i am nonbinary.

  • i speak french and a bit of spanish (taught to me by my husband).

  • i am a ghost fan, and a general metalhead. i love many metal subgenres.

  • yes, i am 20. yes, i am married. i am a military wife, but do not necessarily make the military part of my identity.

I'm a big fan of papa iii, but love all of the papas and eras of ghost. my other interests include the nightmare before christmas, crocheting, cats, fashion, and gothic aesthetics.

Please be aware i am autistic and have adhd. i may not always understand tones or intentions over text.

DNI if...

  • under 18

  • generally a bigot

  • a metal elitist

please do not...

  • flirt with me

  • make weird comments about my relationship

  • make fun of me

  • make fun of my interests

  • demand i follow back